Being Thankful and Forgiving

Today is a new day. I finished reading Ecclesiastes this morning. Tomorrow I will begin the Song of Solomon. It is amazing to me how someone as wise as Solomon could get tricked into idolatry during his lifetime. He "had it all" as the saying goes, and yet he wasn't thankful for what God had done for him and what God had given to him. I am sure I will share more about Solomon as I read that book.

Another book I have been reading is by Robin Jones Gunn. Robin is an author that Denise has been reading for several years. One year ago in October, Robin was at the Anchor Room, a Christian book store in Fort Wayne. Denise really wanted to go and meet her, so we arranged our schedule to do that. Denise, Deborah and I arrived at the Anchor Room and found the books we wanted to purchase. Then we stood in line for only a short time, as there were only about 3 or 4 people in front of us. When it was our turn to meet her, Robin greeted us with open arms and a BIG hug. We introduced ourselves to her, she signed our books, we took pictures of her with each of us, and enjoyed a few minutes of sharing with her before it was time for the next women to meet Robin. I am thankful for the time we shared with Robin. She is a great example of a woman of God.

I had never read any of her books, but after meeting her, I couldn't wait to delve into the new book I had bought. It was called "SisterChicks on the Loose!" Now if you don't know what a Sisterchick is, I will tell you. From Robin's website the definition of a sister chick is as follows:

SISTERCHICK n.: a friend who shares the deepest wonders of your heart, loves you like a sister, and provides a reality check when you're being a brat.

There are 8 SisterChick books as well as a devotional book. The books are wonderful stories of women in the prime of life (used to be called close to middle age LOL) taking vacations together and growing closer to God and each other. I would recommend these books to anyone wanting to know God better.

Robin has written a couple of series for young girls, the first of which was the "Christy Miller Series". It begins when Christy is about 15 years old. She visits her aunt and uncle in California for the summer and so begins her lifetime of getting to know God better and Him. There are 12 books in the series. The first spin-off series was the Sierra Jensen series, which I have not read. The second spin-off series continued with Christy and is called The College Years. The fourth spin-off series is called the Katie Weldon Series.

Denise encouraged me to read these books and so I began. I read the "Christy Miller Series" (all 12 books) and I am almost done with "The College Years". The third book in the "The College Years" series is called "I Promise". Christy is talking to her grandmother. She is visiting her in light of her grandfather's recent death. Her grandmother gives her some advice that I thought I would share.

"It goes very fast." A tear glistened in Grandma's eye before finding its way down her wrinkled cheek. "It's over so soon. Keep short lists, honey. Learn to forgive quickly and go on because one day you'll wake up and find that somehow you got old when you weren't looking. Your lists won't matter at all then." These words are a gem! I am not that old yet, but I can see the logic behind what Christy's grandmother is telling her.

In the Bible, Ephesians 4:26 tells us, "Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath." How often have we gotten angry about something, then we let it brew, and then we stew over it for so long that now we are REALLY angry? What profit is there when we hold on to anger and bitterness? Does it affect the person with whom we are angry or bitter against? The answer is no, probably not. A lot of times that person may not even know that we are angry with them. But do you know who it does affect? It affects the one who holds the anger and bitterness. That person is out of alignment and harmony with God. It keeps that one from enjoying the sweet fellowship he could be having with his heavenly Father. Does God walk away from him at those times? No, he walks away from God.

Ephesians chapter 4 is an excellent chapter that begins the practical application of the doctrine we have read in the first three chapters of Ephesians. (I encourage all of you to read this section of the Word.) The closing verses in chapter 4 tell us,

Eph 4:31
Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:
Eph 4:32
And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.

If God can forgive us for the things that we do, then we can surely forgive others who do things to us. Let's walk in newness of life as we endeavor to forget the little things and focus on the greatness of God's wonderful, matchless Word.

Remember to be thankful for God's goodness and God's love! God Bless You :)

Lots of Fun!

It has been too long since I have shared anything. My heart was joyful last weekend as we had a guest for a few days. Dannae's boyfriend Zach visited from the Chicago area and we all enjoyed the visit immensely.
Friday night found us at a volleyball game in Wabash. Denise and Deborah played very well. This is only their second year of playing on an organized team and they have improved very much.
Saturday night we attended the wedding of Josh and Amy. They have been Danny's and David's friends for about 13 years. The wedding was held at the Rooftop Lounge of the Memorial Coliseum in Fort Wayne. The sky was somewhat cloudy as it sprinkled lightly on the outdoor location prior to the wedding. By the time the bride came down the aisle, the drops of water had stopped and the wedding proceeded as planned.
After the ceremony, the reception was held in the adjoining lounge. We partook of a tasty buffet and enjoyed karaoke sung by numerous friends, including Josh. Daniel and I danced to several slower songs, as did Danny and Heather and Zach and Dannae. It was a wonderful time to share in the lives of Josh and Amy and to be together as a family.
Sunday we attended the 80th birthday celebration for my Uncle Del in Fort Wayne. He was my Dad's only brother. Those attending were my Aunt Norma; cousin Karen and her husband Dave from Plymouth, Indiana; cousin Kay Ann and her husband Mike from Virginia; cousin Kathy from Fort Wayne; and several of Aunt Norma's family. It was a wonderful time to be together and celebrate a momentous occasion.
Afterward we came home and celebrated David's graduation from IPFW. Numerous parties, work, and various schedules made it difficult to have a party earlier in the summer. Nick and Ashley joined our family as Daniel cooked-out on the grill and we enjoyed some home-cooked food.
A very busy weekend was enjoyed by all.